reality check.

Seriously. I had this conversation with a friend a few months ago and it's stuck with me ever since. This kid is an example of how a real man should be. He never makes a decision without thinking about how it's gonna affect his future, and if it's sketchy in the slightest, he doesn't do it. 

This just goes to show that not all boys are the same. In highschool, there were about a million and a half jerks that didn't care about respecting girls or themselves or anything. But then there are still some like these. These are the kind of guys I wanna spend my time with. The guys that realize there is life after highschool, and it's not all about being happy right in the moment, and not caring what comes after. 

I dunno. I guess it's just important for me to always remember that there is such a thing as a good guy. They're not a myth, believe it or not.

The other thing I have to remember, especially with me moving out in a few days, is that to attract a good guy, I have to be a good girl. I think that's the most important thing for me to remember at this point in my life, and I'm gonna do my best to live up to the things my parents have taught me, even when it's hard.